Note: We encourage including the Children's Bill of Rights as a mutual injunction in your Final Decree of Divorce or any Orders pertaining to children.
1. Neither parent shall deny the child reasonable use of the telephone to place and receive calls with the other parent or relatives.
2. Neither parent shall speak or write derogatory remarks about the other parent to the child, or engage in abusive, coarse or foul language, which can be overheard by the child whether or not the language involves the other parent.
3. Neither parent shall permit the children to overhear arguments, negotiations or other substantive discussions about legal or business dealings between the parents.
4. Neither parent shall physically or psychologically attempt to pressure, attempt to influence, pressure, or influence the children concerning the personal opinion or positions of the child concerning legal proceedings between the parents.
5. Each parent will permit the child to display photographs of the other parent or both parents in the child's room.
6. Neither parent shall communicate moral judgments about the other parent to the child concerning the other parent's choice of values, life-style, choice of friends, successes or failures in life (career, financial, relational) or residential choice.
7. The parents will acknowledge to the child that the child has two homes although the child may spend more time at one home than the other.
8. The parents shall cooperate to the greatest extent practicable in sharing time with the child.
9. Each parent will permit the child to retain, and allow easy access to, correspondence, greeting cards and other written materials received from the other parent.
10. Each parent will respect the physical integrity of items possessed by the child, which depict the other parent or remind the child of the other parent.
11. Neither parent will trivialize, or deny the existence of, the other parent to the child.
12. Neither parent will interrogate the child about the other parent nor will either parent discourage comments by the child about the other parent.
13. Neither parent will intercept, "lose," derail, "forget," or otherwise interfere with communications to the child from the other parent.
14. Neither parent will refuse to acknowledge that the child can have or should have good experiences with the other parent.
15. Neither parent will directly or indirectly attack or criticize to the child the extended family of the other parent, the other parent's career, the living and travel arrangements of the other parent, or lawful activities of the other parent or associates of the other parent.
16. Neither parent will use the child as a "middle-man" by using the child to communicate with the other parent on inappropriate topics.
17. Neither parent will undermine the other parent in the eyes of the child by engaging in the "circumstantial syndrome" which is done by manipulating, changing, or rearranging facts.
18. Neither parent will create for, or exaggerate to, the child differences between the parents.
19. Neither parent will say and do things with an eye to gaining the child as an "ally" against the other parent.
20. Neither parent will encourage or instruct the child to be disobedient to the other parent, stepparents, or relatives.
21. Neither parent will reward the child to act negatively toward the other parent.
22. Neither parent will try to make the child believe he or she loves the child more than the other parent by, for example, saying that he or she loves the child more than the other parent or over-informing the child on adult topics or overindulging the child.
23. Neither parent will discuss child support issues with the child.
24. Neither parent will engage in judgmental, opinionated or negative commentary, physical inspections or interrogations once the child arrives from his/her other home.
25. Neither parent will "rewrite" or "rescript" facts, which the child originally knows to be different.
26. Neither parent will punish the child physically or threaten such punishment in order to influence the child to adopt the parent's negative program, if any, against the other parent.
27. Neither parent will permit the child to be transported by a person who is intoxicated due to consumption of alcohol or illegal drugs.
28. Neither parent will smoke tobacco materials inside structures or vehicles occupied at the time by the child.
29. Each parent will permit the child to carry gifts, toys, clothing, and other items belonging to the child with him or her to the residence of the other parent or relatives or permit the child to take gifts, toys, clothing, and other items belonging to the child back to the residence of the other parent, as the case may be, to facilitate the child having with him or her objects important to the child The gifts, toys, clothing, and other items belonging to the child referred to here mean items which are reasonably transportable (and do not include pets which the parents agree are impractical to move about).
Children's Bill of Rights
Loving & Caring Order
ATTORNEY AT LAW & MEDIATOR
CALL FOR A CONSULTATION
Each Parent is ORDERED to encourage and nurture the relationship between the child and the other parent by encouraging the child to interact with the other parent, taking good faith measures to ensure visitation and refraining from doing anything to undermine the relationship between the other parent and the child. Each parent is ORDERED to do everything within his or her power to create in the child's mind a loving and caring feeling towards the other parent. It is further ORDERED that each parent is permanently enjoined from speaking badly or in a disparaging fashion about the other parent to anyone in any way in the children's presence. It is the intention of the Court that this provision be enforceable by contempt of Court.
The Court further notes that each parent has been admonished by the Court that their failure to act in accordance with this specific order of the Court shall be punishable by any and all remedies available for contempt of Court, including, but not limited to, the imposition of a fine up to five hundred dollars ($500.00) and/or confinement in the jail for up to six (6) months for each violation.
Each parent is FURTHER ORDERED to notify the other parent immediately, either verbally or in writing, of any and all significant events pertaining to the child, including but not limited to:
1. any and all medical, dental and psychological conditions of the child;
2. the identity, including name, address and telephone number, of any physician, dentist or psychologist providing treatment to the child;
3. any and all medications, if any, prescribed for the child, including, but not limited to, the time the medication was last given to the child;
4. any matter relating to the child's educational status, including school activities, grades, homework, field trips, disciplinary slips, progress notes, teacher conferences and the like;
5. any matter relating to the extra-curricular activities of the child, including but not limited to, the times and places of such activities;
6. vacation plans which include the child, including the itinerary and location of the child and a telephone number where the child may be reached, if the child is to be absent from the residence of a parent for more than twenty-four consecutive hours during any period of possession by a parent; and
7. any and all other matters which affect or impact the welfare of the child.
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